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Post by RoamingCat on Sat Dec 03, 2016 6:12 pm

There are many overlapping factors that I have noticed.

Raised by single mother.
Mother was sexy or at least attractive.
Some form of trauma.

The result is what we have here, not that it's wrong, but it's interesting. I got started because my mother had a 10/10 body and I was reminded of it all throughout my youth by classmates and men hitting on my mother nonstop. She divorced my father when I was a young boy you see, and after that it was nonstop attention.

I used to be furious but now it simply makes me wonder.
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Post by Watcher on Wed Dec 07, 2016 4:09 pm

I'd love to say it was something traumatic, but the truth is I think I've always been something like a passive person, and age sexual taboos somehow popped out at me.

The kink/fetish didn't solidify (or, more accurately, I wasn't terribly aware of it) until I read what I now consider to be a masterpiece, TheStinger's The Bet.

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Post by mathew elizabeth on Fri Dec 23, 2016 8:17 pm

I'm not entirely sure when it sparked a sexual interest in me.The first thing I remember was when i was 8 and my mum picked me up from school. One of my classmates who used tease me about lots of stuff; commented by saying curiously "Isthat your mum??". He said it with such wide eyed, hungry curiosity. It made me blush with embarressment; but also pride in knowing I had the most beautiful looking mother.What alot of people forget too; is that my story 'Mommy's Love Denied' is loosly based on moments in my life such as when Scott goes to the Snowplains. The segment where Scotts friends comment on Ryans family going with my family. They were saying to Ryan how he "should fuck her up thr bum.". These were a few of many early things that fot me interested in it.

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Post by DanNirmal on Mon Dec 26, 2016 3:58 am

I got into this just from having a somewhat slutty mom. She was a conservative housewife but I saw her get up to a lot of stuff with my friends behind my back.

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Post by Philo B. on Tue Jan 03, 2017 12:15 am

For all of us, I think the common thread is psychological trauma at a young age, causing damage to confidence and self-esteem.  My mother was never slutty - as far as I know - but she was a tragic figure.  She was a loving, warm-hearted woman married to a very emotionally repressed man, leading to a hell-on-earth marriage.  This of course spilled over into child rearing, which means I didn't grow up in an emotionally safe and healthy environment.  

To cope with the trauma, I believe that my mind sexualized the confusion, pain and rejection that I experienced from a number of quarters.  And I don't think there is any greater, more soul-destroying rejection than that from your mother, the person who brought you into the world and was your entire universe during the dawn of your life. Repressing such rejection can result in dire consequences, so our minds bring it out into the daylight surrounded by the protective cocoon of fantasy.

To that point, the human brain is an amazingly complex instrument, and it can get quite creative in protecting a person's sanity and peace of mind.  I think if we merely acknowledge the forces that are at work in our minds, these fantasies of ours are not at all harmful.  It's the people who lie to themselves by saying, "I'm perfectly fine and immaculately well-adjusted!" that have the problems.  I know that from direct family experience.
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Post by RoamingCat on Wed Jan 11, 2017 2:14 am

Philo B. wrote:For all of us, I think the common thread is psychological trauma at a young age, causing damage to confidence and self-esteem.  My mother was never slutty

That's interesting. A mother does not need to be hyper sexual (aka slutty) to skew their son over to these fantasies. Though I'd be willing to bet that is generally the case.

Or maybe that's just because my mother was latina that I think this way, latin women are notoriously hyper sexual and tend to love showing off their body.



More than that for me, was the fact that she would inexplicably take me with her whenever she'd go to a concert, a social function (with booze) and parties (Especially at pools) with only adults, leading me to see her and other adults in a highly sexualized environment. That in and of itself is not enough, whenever I would ask her anything about sex or women she'd either ignore me or get angry for asking, making me very confused. That is probably the biggest factor, a lot of where I learned about sex was from my school chums, who would regularly say things sexual things about my mother. To think I had to lean on them to even understand the basics of sex.

As a young boy, I didn't understand why slightly older boys than me would go bonkers during a pool party in the rare cases my mother went topless during taning. Eventually I realized how horrible it was but that is just one of many things she did that made my sexual growth and development very confusing.
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Post by spikygreen cactus on Wed Jan 18, 2017 10:45 am

It's strange how I like this fantasy because I was never teased about my mom being hot when I was younger. In fact when I masturbate to a bully fucking a mom I don't imagine that it is my mom. I think I like it because I'm into MILFs/mom-son incest and cuckolding, so I imagine being cuckolded by the bully when he fucks a mom.

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Post by Dreadmac on Wed Jan 18, 2017 6:41 pm

For me it didn't start as wanting to see my mum having sex or letting her sexual lust and desire take over or anything to do with bully's as my mum is still married and i've never been bullied but she is very sexually reserved and it was not approved of growing up, for me it started with my sister after hearing her getting fucked one day and thinking it could of been my best friend who has a big cock ( used to jack off to porn together)
So thinking of him using my sister just kind of progressed to him fucking my mum and from there it just branched out into mum cuck son, incest, friends fuck mum, male dom's coming into her life, finding out she's being blackmailed for a neighbor's sexual pleasure and a whole host more.
So for me i just love the whole thing to do with it from the taboo to the less taboo.
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Re: What got you started in this fantasy?

Post by Broken_Son1010 on Mon Feb 06, 2017 4:44 pm

For me it was definitely how the image I had of my Mother changed so much after I found out/she told me some things.  Although she has always been a hot and young latina( She`s 42, I`m 18) and I’ve always noticed how men – Including my friends – looked at her, I never paid attention because I thought she was this holy and loyal figure.

Not trying to make it gloomy but she is a real struggler. Her (Our) family is quite big, she has eight siblings and is the second oldest one. My grandparents died when she was only 15 and the oldest sibling, her sister, was already married at the time so she had to stop going to school and started working alongside my oldest uncle, her brother, to keep the family fed. When she was 18 she really tried to go to college but having two jobs – Working at a jewelry enterprise as a seller and a film company as an assistant – made her not be able to. Still, she is very smart in a practical way (Has a lot of initiative and can get things done easily). She then proceeded to meet my father, they fell in love and etc.

As a parent, she was always very loving and responsible but demanding. She always made sure to meet my friends, my friends’ parents and etc. Nevertheless, because she was so dependable and fair I did not try to hide things from her. Whenever I drunk alcohol, I’d tell her afterwards. What she was always VERY against was drugs, though, like pot and cocaine. This info is relevant.

So as you guys see, a very good mother overall, right? In addition, don’t get me wrong, she absolutely is. But I suppose I completely forgot she was an imperfect human being as well.


Until my 16s, while I knew my mom was really hot(And my friends reminded me of that) I never thought of her in any kind of sexual manner. She didn’t give me reason to, after all, to me she was this ideal mom: She could dress up somewhat provocatively sometimes and not use her bra around the house but I never thought of that as something wrong.  Then I discovered something.


I had/have this friend, let’s call him John.  John was this really good friend of mine that because of too much alcohol (as far as I know) hooked up with, at the time, my girlfriend. John was a good person that enjoyed the use of recreational drugs, especially pot. I was very mad at John for like two months, and of course I told my mom all about it. She loyally took my side but that was that. One day I decided to skip my extracurricular Basketball lessons and go home earlier. As I was approaching my house I saw John leaving it to the opposite direction I was coming from. I figured he probably wanted to talk to me or something, but as I was getting near(er?) I smelled pot, like, really strongly. I should clarify that my mom always told me to be careful around John, saying that she felt he was a bad influence to me and whatnot – And I knew she overall not liked him. But when I entered the house there she was on the sofa, smoking pot. Now, while this may not fill as too much, do understand the circumstances. John hooked up with my girl and my mom was always very antidrug. Seeing her like that made my heart click. Anyway, she ended up revealing to me that she has always smoked pot recreationally since from her teenage years.

Of course, the possibility of she and him engaging on a sexual affair bugged my mind but we had cameras and after some inspections, I confirmed that he just sold it to her regularly.  Sorry to disappoint...   Razz

It was after that that I started to see her as a woman. I later on noticed/found out many things:
- I found out that she regularly fucked the film production crew while on shrooms, pot or cocaine, while she worked there.
- I never noticed but she’s quite flirty and I just realized she walks around at home braless only when there’s visits.
- I also am pretty sure she’s bi.
- While I’m really sure she was loyal to my dad(They divorced over an affair he had) while the marriage lasted, I do think she’s overall into younger people.
- I also found out she has a lot of kinky toys. The other day when I brought my new gf to meet her I was waiting at her bedroom(with my gf, she was looking at some old albums) while she bathed and got bored, so I decided to snoop around a bit and ended up discovering quite the collection, even a double-sided dildo.
- She’s also becoming more and more libertine after her divorce. Keep in mind we don’t live together anymore so I don’t know what she does alone, but my gf and her are very buddies-buddies now and she(my gf) told me she(my mom) was thinking on piercing her nipples.

Nevertheless, it was since the episode with John that this, I suppose, fetish arose in me. It wasn't because my mom's beauty or my friends attention, but I guess because she lied to me(Thus betraying my trust to a degree) for so long and ultimately not cared enough to not deal with the guy that had a fling with that ex, while I thought she was this perfect mother and person.
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Post by Betrayal on Mon Feb 06, 2017 8:25 pm

Broken_Son1010 wrote:For me it was definitely how the image I had of my Mother changed so much after I found out/she told me some things.  Although she has always been a hot and young latina( She`s 42, I`m 18) and I’ve always noticed how men – Including my friends – looked at her, I never paid attention because I thought she was this holy and loyal figure.

Not trying to make it gloomy but she is a real struggler. Her (Our) family is quite big, she has eight siblings and is the second oldest one. My grandparents died when she was only 15 and the oldest sibling, her sister, was already married at the time so she had to stop going to school and started working alongside my oldest uncle, her brother, to keep the family fed. When she was 18 she really tried to go to college but having two jobs – Working at a jewelry enterprise as a seller and a film company as an assistant – made her not be able to. Still, she is very smart in a practical way (Has a lot of initiative and can get things done easily). She then proceeded to meet my father, they fell in love and etc.

As a parent, she was always very loving and responsible but demanding. She always made sure to meet my friends, my friends’ parents and etc. Nevertheless, because she was so dependable and fair I did not try to hide things from her. Whenever I drunk alcohol, I’d tell her afterwards. What she was always VERY against was drugs, though, like pot and cocaine. This info is relevant.

So as you guys see, a very good mother overall, right? In addition, don’t get me wrong, she absolutely is. But I suppose I completely forgot she was an imperfect human being as well.


Until my 16s, while I knew my mom was really hot(And my friends reminded me of that) I never thought of her in any kind of sexual manner. She didn’t give me reason to, after all, to me she was this ideal mom: She could dress up somewhat provocatively sometimes and not use her bra around the house but I never thought of that as something wrong.  Then I discovered something.


I had/have this friend, let’s call him John.  John was this really good friend of mine that because of too much alcohol (as far as I know) hooked up with, at the time, my girlfriend. John was a good person that enjoyed the use of recreational drugs, especially pot. I was very mad at John for like two months, and of course I told my mom all about it. She loyally took my side but that was that. One day I decided to skip my extracurricular Basketball lessons and go home earlier. As I was approaching my house I saw John leaving it to the opposite direction I was coming from. I figured he probably wanted to talk to me or something, but as I was getting near(er?) I smelled pot, like, really strongly. I should clarify that my mom always told me to be careful around John, saying that she felt he was a bad influence to me and whatnot – And I knew she overall not liked him. But when I entered the house there she was on the sofa, smoking pot. Now, while this may not fill as too much, do understand the circumstances. John hooked up with my girl and my mom was always very antidrug. Seeing her like that made my heart click. Anyway, she ended up revealing to me that she has always smoked pot recreationally since from her teenage years.

Of course, the possibility of she and him engaging on a sexual affair bugged my mind but we had cameras and after some inspections, I confirmed that he just sold it to her regularly.  Sorry to disappoint...   Razz

It was after that that I started to see her as a woman. I later on noticed/found out many things:
- I found out that she regularly fucked the film production crew while on shrooms, pot or cocaine, while she worked there.
- I never noticed but she’s quite flirty and I just realized she walks around at home braless only when there’s visits.
- I also am pretty sure she’s bi.
- While I’m really sure she was loyal to my dad(They divorced over an affair he had) while the marriage lasted, I do think she’s overall into younger people.
- I also found out she has a lot of kinky toys. The other day when I brought my new gf to meet her I was waiting at her bedroom(with my gf, she was looking at some old albums) while she bathed and got bored, so I decided to snoop around a bit and ended up discovering quite the collection, even a double-sided dildo.
- She’s also becoming more and more libertine after her divorce. Keep in mind we don’t live together anymore so I don’t know what she does alone, but my gf and her are very buddies-buddies now and she(my gf) told me she(my mom) was thinking on piercing her nipples.

Nevertheless, it was since the episode with John that this, I suppose, fetish arose in me. It wasn't because my mom's beauty or my friends attention, but I guess because she lied to me(Thus betraying my trust to a degree) for so long and ultimately not cared enough to not deal with the guy that had a fling with that ex, while I thought she was this perfect mother and person.
Great insightful post. As I 've said the imagination is probably the most useful tool when it comes to exploring this genre. Even though you never actually witnessed your mom being slutty like some of us have, it was her holding the full truth from you that planted seeds of doubt and rightfully showed that even our own mothers are flawed beings, albeit some more than others.

Honestly though, it would have been awesome if she really did fuck John Razz
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Post by Broken_Son1010 on Tue Feb 07, 2017 1:12 pm

Betrayal wrote: Great insightful post. As I 've said the imagination is probably the most useful tool when it comes to exploring this genre. Even though you never actually witnessed your mom being slutty like some of us have, it was her holding the full truth from you that planted seeds of doubt and rightfully showed that even our own mothers are flawed beings, albeit some more than others.

Honestly though, it would have been awesome if she really did fuck John Razz

Thanks!
You know what’s funny? When you suggested that it’d have been awesome if she fucked John, I felt this strong sting in my heart… And at the same time, I got an erection. Aren’t we all a big sadists, in the inside?
Furthermore, I feel a lot of people – Including me to some degree – find it appealing that their loving mothers ultimately see their sons as losers. Some go beyond and seem to love when she begs for the guy to impregnate her with a better seed. But aside from the whole psychological thing of your mother betraying you, I believe a lot of us simply seem to like to be picked on – when we have some control over the variables.
Many of us seem to be, well, not very sociable or talented people. Nerds. I’m pretty sociable, for example, but there is one thing I’ve a inferiority complex over, and that is the size my dick. That makes me wonder, does everyone that deeply enjoy this kink have some sort of inferiority-sadist complex over something? Is that a condition to enjoy this?

Sorry if I'm derrailing the thread's topic, but I feel it stays on it anyway.
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Post by Betrayal on Tue Feb 07, 2017 1:30 pm

Wow man you're really touching on all the bases here. You think you got it bad, try being short, ugly, brown, tiny dicked and relatively low iq to boot. All of this as you said definitely plays a part in the inferiority complex I have when it comes to this genre. My mom's an attractive latina woman who only prefers men who look the complete opposite of me. It's both a humiliating yet insanely liberating fact I've come to grips with. Being an undesirable male in general is what fuels my sexual imagination; the humiliation, rejection, bullying, isolation, etc only plays a part in it.

And really don't ever worry about going off topic here (within reason of course) we need all the activity we can get. Very Happy
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Post by RoamingCat on Fri Feb 10, 2017 8:45 pm

Broken_Son1010 wrote:For me it was definitely how the image I had of my Mother changed so much after I found out/she told me some things.  Although she has always been a hot and young latina( She`s 42, I`m 18) and I’ve always noticed how men – Including my friends – looked at her, I never paid attention because I thought she was this holy and loyal figure.

Not trying to make it gloomy but she is a real struggler. Her (Our) family is quite big, she has eight siblings and is the second oldest one. My grandparents died when she was only 15 and the oldest sibling, her sister, was already married at the time so she had to stop going to school and started working alongside my oldest uncle, her brother, to keep the family fed. When she was 18 she really tried to go to college but having two jobs – Working at a jewelry enterprise as a seller and a film company as an assistant – made her not be able to. Still, she is very smart in a practical way (Has a lot of initiative and can get things done easily). She then proceeded to meet my father, they fell in love and etc.

As a parent, she was always very loving and responsible but demanding. She always made sure to meet my friends, my friends’ parents and etc. Nevertheless, because she was so dependable and fair I did not try to hide things from her. Whenever I drunk alcohol, I’d tell her afterwards. What she was always VERY against was drugs, though, like pot and cocaine. This info is relevant.

So as you guys see, a very good mother overall, right? In addition, don’t get me wrong, she absolutely is. But I suppose I completely forgot she was an imperfect human being as well.


Until my 16s, while I knew my mom was really hot(And my friends reminded me of that) I never thought of her in any kind of sexual manner. She didn’t give me reason to, after all, to me she was this ideal mom: She could dress up somewhat provocatively sometimes and not use her bra around the house but I never thought of that as something wrong.  Then I discovered something.


I had/have this friend, let’s call him John.  John was this really good friend of mine that because of too much alcohol (as far as I know) hooked up with, at the time, my girlfriend. John was a good person that enjoyed the use of recreational drugs, especially pot. I was very mad at John for like two months, and of course I told my mom all about it. She loyally took my side but that was that. One day I decided to skip my extracurricular Basketball lessons and go home earlier. As I was approaching my house I saw John leaving it to the opposite direction I was coming from. I figured he probably wanted to talk to me or something, but as I was getting near(er?) I smelled pot, like, really strongly. I should clarify that my mom always told me to be careful around John, saying that she felt he was a bad influence to me and whatnot – And I knew she overall not liked him. But when I entered the house there she was on the sofa, smoking pot. Now, while this may not fill as too much, do understand the circumstances. John hooked up with my girl and my mom was always very antidrug. Seeing her like that made my heart click. Anyway, she ended up revealing to me that she has always smoked pot recreationally since from her teenage years.

Of course, the possibility of she and him engaging on a sexual affair bugged my mind but we had cameras and after some inspections, I confirmed that he just sold it to her regularly.  Sorry to disappoint...   Razz

It was after that that I started to see her as a woman. I later on noticed/found out many things:
- I found out that she regularly fucked the film production crew while on shrooms, pot or cocaine, while she worked there.
- I never noticed but she’s quite flirty and I just realized she walks around at home braless only when there’s visits.
- I also am pretty sure she’s bi.
- While I’m really sure she was loyal to my dad(They divorced over an affair he had) while the marriage lasted, I do think she’s overall into younger people.
- I also found out she has a lot of kinky toys. The other day when I brought my new gf to meet her I was waiting at her bedroom(with my gf, she was looking at some old albums) while she bathed and got bored, so I decided to snoop around a bit and ended up discovering quite the collection, even a double-sided dildo.
- She’s also becoming more and more libertine after her divorce. Keep in mind we don’t live together anymore so I don’t know what she does alone, but my gf and her are very buddies-buddies now and she(my gf) told me she(my mom) was thinking on piercing her nipples.

Nevertheless, it was since the episode with John that this, I suppose, fetish arose in me. It wasn't because my mom's beauty or my friends attention, but I guess because she lied to me(Thus betraying my trust to a degree) for so long and ultimately not cared enough to not deal with the guy that had a fling with that ex, while I thought she was this perfect mother and person.

This was a great read, thanks for sharing.
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